I met the woman through my girlfriend's introduction. Yes, she was my girlfriend's friend, but I still hit on her. I secretly searched for her contact information on my girlfriend's phone while my gf was showering.
Then I contacted her, pretending to have something to discuss. I told her that my relationship with my girlfriend was rocky and asked if my girlfriend had told her anything about it.
She said she had only known my girlfriend for a short time and didn't know much, so she couldn't help me. I then told her that my girlfriend often talked about her, saying she was a good person.
I just kept finding things to talk about, trying to get close to her. I pretended to be seeking advice about my girlfriend, but really I was trying to hit on her.
Women often feel sympathetic and obligated to talk to us if we approach them in a sad way, like a bird with broken wings. It's their maternal instinct. If they refuse, they might feel too heartless.
At first, I talked to her about my girlfriend for a while. Once we got to know each other, the conversation started to exclude my girlfriend. I began to talk to her about herself, encouraging her to share her story. From experience, if you let a woman talk about herself a lot, eventually she'll realize that she has feelings for you.
But this woman was mysterious. She didn't talk much about herself. Every time I asked about her personal life, she would turn the conversation back to me and ask me to share my story instead. That made her even more intriguing.
I don't know if I really liked her or if I just wanted to win her over, but I tried to set up a date with her. At first, she dodged me, but eventually she agreed.
She asked me to meet her there, and that was the last time I spoke to her.