Things at Violet's lunch went well. Her heart was swelling with joy seeing her best friend with her now brother-in-law, officially. They were surprised when Lilith accepted Rosa, being halfling wasn't considered good enough for anything 'real' usually. But Lilith adored Violet and would do almost anything to see her smile. If Rosa becoming her grand-daughter in-law would please her favorite person, it was easy. The girl wasn't a whole human. That would be too much. She despised humans in most cases. Finicky, she called them. Dishonest and disloyal. Because they live such short lives their feeling and aspirations are fleeting and unreliable. But half vampires, had most of the perks of being a full fledge vampire, or a Changeling vampire, which are different from the Turned. Changelings were turned with a blood exchange, however people who were bitten and don't receive a blood exchange, they either die or turn into something sick, twisted and evil.
Lilith could tolerate a halfling.